- Prioritising-When I had the children at home during the day, the children would go down for a rest no matter what the age. This would be my time. Not time to race around the house cleaning. The housework will always be there.
- Creating in 5 minute doses-I try and leave out what I'm working on so I can do little bits of work
- Work on smaller scale pieces so they have a chance of getting finished
- Good routines in the house so my time is freed up. Now my children all go school each day I have housework, dinner, washing, etc all done before the children leave for school so I can create all day.
- Dovetailing jobs-When I take the children to lessons I do the groceries, library drop of etc so i only have to go into town a couple of times a week
- Planning-if I plan what I want to do on a daily basis I am more likely to accomplish it
- Writing down my goals of what I want to achieve.
- Only creating one piece of work at a time so I get the feeling of accomplishing something. When I finish something I am more likely to keep going back and doing more
- Keeping my work space tidy and clean
- Having handwork I can do while my children are watching a movie or T.V. I can still be with them and create at the same time
- Quilt, paint and stitch along side your children-this teaches them new skills
- Make time for yourself-it helps our children see the importance of looking after me so that we can give to others with a full spirit
- Have a meal plan so you know what you need to cook each day
- read about other peoples art and techniques. I try and take a book with me on quilting everywhere I go in case i have a chance to do some learning.
- Allocate a night a personal date night every week where your husband/partner or friend looks after your children or if you have no kids a night that they know about so you won't be disturbed so you can quilt, stitich and create to your hearts content.
- Sometimes turn of the phone, the comuter and the I Pod. Have techno free days where no one can reach you.
I know if I can create on a daily basis I am happier, healthier, a much better mum and a much more completed human being. Making time for my needs is imperitive for my life.
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